01/04
Hatty J. Lee, LMFT
Founder & clinical Director | MFC #83772
I am an Asian American / Korean licensed marriage and family therapist and Brainspotting practitioner based in Los Angeles, Pasadena, and Koreatown, California. With over sixteen years of experience across child and family clinics, school-based programs, adult outpatient centers, and private practice, I bring a depth of clinical expertise shaped by work in diverse communities and high‑pressure environments. I serve as the clinical director at Oak & Stone Therapy, overseeing clinical development, supervision, and the therapeutic direction of our Los Angeles, Pasadena, Koreatown, and Seattle teams. I intentionally maintain a small caseload because direct clinical work continues to be one of the most meaningful and grounding parts of my professional life. I am also the co-author of The Indwell Guide, a book that integrates visual storytelling, mental health education, and practical tools to support people to heal and thrive.
My clinical work centers on individuals whose personal, creative, or professional lives place them in high‑stakes roles. I specialize in supporting creatives and entertainment industry professionals (actors, writers, musicians, producers), public figures and advocates, entrepreneurs, founders, corporate executives, people in the helping professions, mothers navigating postpartum depression and anxiety, couples, adult children of immigrants, and Asian Americans exploring racial, ethnic, cultural, spiritual, and professional identity. I work with clients who carry significant relational, cultural, or leadership responsibilities and who are ready to invest deeply in their inner work to build lives marked by meaningful relationships, clarity, creativity, and purpose.
I bring my whole self into the therapeutic relationship. As an intuitive feeler (INFJ), I value creativity, psychological safety, integrity, and relational depth. My lived experience as a child of Korean immigrants, a married cis woman raising three children, a partner to an entrepreneur and investor, a working mother and entrepreneur in the wellness space, a person of faith, and a therapist committed to my own healing shapes the way I support clients. These identities allow me to understand the nuances of navigating immigrant family systems, experiencing invisibility and microaggressions as an Asian American, managing leadership stress and work/life imbalance in entrepreneurship, carrying the emotional labor of helping professions, moving through relationship transitions, facing creative and performance blocks, and balancing caretaking with ambition.
My work is grounded in ongoing personal practice. I am part of a nourishing community of mentors, colleagues, and friendships. I prioritize rest without guilt. I cultivate creativity and innovation in my professional life. I am committed to breaking intergenerational trauma through my marriage, parenting, and leadership. And most importantly, I remain in therapy myself, knowing that the quality of my inner work directly impacts the depth of support I offer my clients. If you are ready to engage courageously, reflect honestly, and build a life aligned with their values, relationships, and calling, reach out for a consultation today.
learn more at www.hattyjlee.com
02/04
Clinical interests
Anxiety, Depression, ADHD, & High‑Functioning Mental Health
Anxiety & perfectionism
High‑functioning depression
ADHD‑related challenges for high‑achieving adults, creatives, and leaders
Navigating relationships with loved ones with ADHD
Trauma, Complex Trauma & Intergenerational Healing
Trauma, complex trauma,, and intergenerational trauma
Grief and loss
Codependency, over-responsibility, parentification, savior complexes
Boundary challenges, trust issues, guilt around rest
Relational wounds rooted in trauma (family conflict, attachment injuries, emotional neglect)
Identity, Culture & Asian American Mental Health
1st & 2nd generation immigrant challenges
Asian + Asian American LGBTQIA+
Issues related to Christian faith, spirituality, and religious deconstruction
Racial, ethnic, cultural, spiritual, and professional identity
Microaggressions, invisibility, cultural pressure
Maternal Mental Health & Parenting
Postpartum depression, anxiety, trauma
Maternal mental health for working mothers, founders, creatives
Parenting challenges
Balancing caregiving with ambition
Relationships
Relationship difficulties for friendships, couples, co-workers, families, and in-laws
Recovery from betrayal and divorce
Relational issues between co-founders/leaders in entrepreneurship
Work/life imbalance affecting relationships
Communication breakdowns, conflict cycles, and relational patterns
Creativity, Performance & Identity
Burnout, imposter syndrome, scarcity mindset
Career dissatisfaction or transitions
Difficulties with money, first-generation wealth, & intergenerational wealth
Professional identity development for creatives, founders, and executives
I offer a therapeutic space that is attuned, culturally grounded, and clinically rigorous. My approach is rooted in contextual family systems theory and Restoration Therapy, helping you understand how your upbringing, early relationships, and the larger systems around you shape your identity, emotions, and patterns today. Clients often describe my style as warm, direct, and deeply attuned. I help you name what you’re actually feeling, identify the beliefs that keep you stuck, and understand how these patterns show up in your relationships.
Together, we’ll clarify your needs and practice responding to them in grounded, meaningful ways so you can feel more whole, steady, and connected. I balance big‑picture insight with practical tools, guiding you to make small, consistent shifts that lead to real change.
Alongside talk therapy, I integrate Brainspotting—a somatic, neuroscience‑based therapy that uses eye position and focused attention to help you process emotions, heal trauma, and regulate your nervous system. This work supports you in experiencing yourself more fully and moving through the world with clarity and confidence.
03/04
My Approach
Experiential
Depth-oriented
directive
04/04
The therapist-client fit is important to the therapy experience
I offer a complimentary 15-minute phone consultation to determine if we might be a good fit to work together. It takes courage to reach out for support. I consider it a privilege to journey alongside you toward your healing and change that empowers you to live out your hopes.