Therapy for depression
Depression Therapist in Los Angeles, Highland Park, Pasadena, Koreatown, & Across CA/WA
We offer high quality in-person depression therapy at our Los Angeles office in Koreatown, Highland Park office, and Pasadena office, serving Highland Park, Eagle Rock, Mount Washington, DTLA, Silverlake, South Pasadena, La Canada, La Crescenta, San Marino and the greater Los Angeles area. Virtual sessions are also available for clients in California, Washington, and select international locations via a HIPAA-compliant platform.
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depression has many faces.
When you think of depression, you might imagine it as an overwhelming, all-encompassing feeling of sadness or hopelessness. While depression can certainly be intense and debilitating, it can also manifest in more nuanced and subtle ways.
At Oak and Stone Therapy in Highland Park, Pasadena, Los Angeles office in Koreatown, and virtually across California and Washington, our depression therapists are trained to assess the sometimes not-so-obvious ways that depression affects your life especially if you are a person of color, a victim of trauma, or someone who is used to presenting a better version of yourself to others because of your lived experiences.
you might be feeling a mix of the following:
Defeated
Excessive guilt
Unmotivated
Inadequate
Helpless
Hopeless
Overwhelmed
Empty
Numb or “nothing”
Exhausted
Sad
Isolated
Irritable
Anxious
Despondent
What Our Clients Often Say
Depression can affect your body in many ways—through brain chemistry, hormonal changes, chronic inflammation, and disruption to your autonomic nervous system, which regulates functions like sleep, digestion, and heart rate. It can also lead to reduced physical activity and self-care, which in turn worsens fatigue, appetite, and sleep issues.
At Oak and Stone Therapy, our depression therapists support you with practical, holistic tools to help you care for both your emotional and physical well-being.
Depression affects your Body.
you might be feeling a mix of the following:
Persistent fatigue
Changes in appetite or weight
Sleep disturbances (e.g. sleeping too much, too little, difficulty falling asleep or staying asleep, etc.)
Aches and pains
Headaches
Digestive issues
Slowed movements or speech
Low energy
Body tension
Muscle pain
Dizziness
Changes in sexual drive
Clumsiness or motor control issues
depression affects your behavior.
Depression often involves negative thinking patterns and physical symptoms as discussed above, which may lead to frequent conflicts in relationships, withdrawal from activities, and a decrease in quality of performance at work or school. These consequences can deepen the depression, creating a cycle that is difficult to break. Over time, behaviors associated with depression can become conditioned in the brain, making it challenging to feel differently, have the motivation to try something new, and respond optimally to situations and interactions with others.
At Oak and Stone Therapy, our depression therapists hope to help you recognize the way your behaviors are an expression of your depression and learn new ways to better cope with your feelings.
you might be experiencing a mix of the following:
Withdrawal from social activities and relationships
Loss of interest in hobbies and activities once enjoyed
Neglecting personal hygiene and self-care
Difficulty concentrating or making decisions
Frequent crying spells or emotional outbursts
Decreased productivity at work or school
Increased use of substances such as alcohol or drugs
Avoidance of responsibilities and procrastination
Engaging in self-destructive behaviors, such as self-harm
Numbing feelings with excessive activities, such as video games, sex, shopping, exercising, high-intense activities, or gambling
Talking about death or suicidal thoughts
You may have developed a sense of helplessness, believing you have no control over your circumstances, expecting the worst outcomes, or viewing a single negative event as a never-ending pattern. Or you may constantly think you are not good enough, undeserving of love or success, or responsible for bad things happening. These beliefs can perpetuate a cycle of negative thoughts, erode your self-esteem, and reinforce feelings of hopelessness, making it difficult to see a way out of depression. Past traumatic experiences and ongoing stressors can exacerbate your thought patterns leading to ruminating thoughts and an inability to focus on positive aspects of life. Studies have shown that depression can alter brain structures, such as the hippocampus (involved in memory) and the prefrontal cortex (involved in decision-making and self-control). These changes can impact how thoughts are processed and retained.
At Oak and Stone Therapy, our depression therapists are trained to explore the impact of how your brain affects your thoughts and integrate body-based interventions to pave new pathways in your brain.
Depression affects your thoughts.
you might be ruminating over a mix of the following:
"Nothing ever goes right for me."
"I'm a burden to others."
"I can't do anything right."
"Life isn't worth living."
"I'm a failure."
"I don't care about anything anymore."
"I don't have the energy to do anything."
"People would be better off without me."
"I can't handle this anymore."
"No one cares about me."
"I'm stuck in a rut."
"I'm not good enough."
"Everything is my fault."
"I can't see a way out."
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Depression therapy is a space to understand what is underneath the heaviness, not just manage it. We combine talk therapy with Brainspotting, a brain-body approach that every therapist on our team is trained in, to work with the thoughts, emotions, and body-held exhaustion that come with depression. We also use Restoration Therapy to help you recognize the painful emotions underneath your reactions and build healthier ways of responding. Sessions focus on what is driving your low mood, rebuilding energy and connection, and developing a kinder way of relating to yourself
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Stress usually eases when the pressure lifts. Depression tends to linger: low mood or numbness most days, losing interest in things you used to enjoy, changes in sleep or appetite, trouble concentrating, feeling worthless, or feeling like you are going through the motions. If this has lasted a couple of weeks or longer, or it is affecting your work, relationships, or sense of self, it is worth talking to a therapist who can help you sort out what you are experiencing.
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Yes. High-functioning depression is common among high achievers. You may keep working, caring for others, and meeting expectations while feeling empty, exhausted, or disconnected on the inside. Many of our clients are professionals, executives, and children of immigrants who have learned to push through and hide how much they are struggling. Therapy gives you a place where you do not have to perform.
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They overlap, and one can lead to the other. Burnout is typically tied to work or caregiving demands and may ease with rest and changes to your load. Depression tends to follow you into the parts of life that used to feel good and often includes hopelessness or a loss of self-worth. A therapist can help you tell the difference and address both.
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This is very common, and we treat them together rather than one at a time. Constant worry can wear you down into exhaustion and low mood, and depression can fuel anxious thoughts. Your therapist will look at how the two feed each other and build a plan around both. You can also learn more on our anxiety therapy.
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No. Our therapists provide talk therapy and do not prescribe medication. If you and your therapist feel medication could help, we can talk through that with you and coordinate with your primary care doctor or a psychiatrist, so your care stays connected.
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Yes. Grief, a breakup, a career setback, a move, or becoming a caregiver can all trigger depression, even months later. Therapy gives you room to grieve what changed, steady yourself, and find your footing again without being told to move on before you are ready.
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Yes. Many of our therapists are Asian American and children of immigrants. In many families, depression is not talked about, or it is called weakness or laziness, which makes it harder to ask for help. We help you make sense of those messages, honor your family and culture, and find support that fits. Therapy is available in English, Korean, and Mandarin.
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Brainspotting is a brain-body approach that helps you process emotions and experiences held below the level of words, such as heaviness, shame, or grief. Many clients find it useful when talking alone has not been enough. Brainspotting is used alongside talk therapy, and your therapist will explain whether it fits what you are working on. You can read more on our our approaches to therapy.
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Restoration Therapy helps you notice the painful feelings underneath your reactions, such as feeling unloved, unsafe, or not good enough, and the patterns you fall into when those feelings show up, like withdrawing, people-pleasing, or shutting down. You then practice new ways to calm yourself, say what is true, and respond in a way that move you toward the life and relationships you want. It is used alongside talk therapy and Brainspotting. You can read more on our approaches.
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Yes. Depression during pregnancy and after having a baby has its own challenges, so we support it on our therapy for moms page, where you can see the therapists who work with postpartum depression and anxiety.
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Yes. We see clients in person at our Pasadena, Highland Park, and Los Angeles office in Koreatown, and online for clients located in California. Many clients combine the two, meeting in person when they can and online when energy or schedules make it hard to leave the house.
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If you are in crisis or thinking about harming yourself, call or text 988, the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline, at any hour, or call 911 if you are in immediate danger. Therapy is not an emergency service, but you do not have to wait for a crisis to ask for help, and you can tell your therapist about these thoughts at any time.
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Reach out through our contact page and share a little about what you are going through. We will offer a free consultation and match you with the therapist who best fits your needs, your schedule, and the office or online option that works for you.
Frequently Asked Questions
In-person therapy at our Highland office, with nearby offices in Pasadena and Los Angeles Office in Koreatown. Virtual therapy across California and Washington State.