Therapy for Moms in Pasadena & Los Angeles
Therapist for Postpartum Depression, Anxiety, Birth Trauma & Infertility Support in Pasadena, Los Angeles, & Beyond
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We provide high‑quality, in‑person therapy for postpartum depression, postpartum anxiety, birth trauma, and infertility at our Pasadena, Highland Park, and Koreatown/Mid‑City Los Angeles offices, and offer secure virtual sessions to clients across California, Washington State, and select international locations through our HIPAA‑compliant telehealth platform.
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Support for Postpartum Depression, Anxiety, Birth Trauma & Infertility
Motherhood can be beautiful — but it can also feel overwhelming, isolating, or nothing like what you expected. Whether you’re navigating postpartum depression, anxiety, birth trauma, infertility, or the identity shifts that come with becoming a mom, you deserve a space where you feel supported, understood, and not judged.
Our Pasadena, Highland Park, and Koreatown / Los Angeles therapists specialize in maternal mental health and provide culturally responsive care for a diverse community, including BIPOC and Asian American moms.
Common Struggles Moms Share in Therapy
Feeling sad, numb, or disconnected from themselves or their baby
Persistent worry about their baby’s safety, health, or development
Feeling like they’re failing or “not a good mom”
Feeling overwhelmed by daily tasks, routines, or decisions
Difficulty relaxing or “turning their mind off”
Feeling guilty for not enjoying motherhood the way they expected
Struggling to bond or feel emotionally connected with their baby
Feeling resentful, frustrated, or ashamed about their emotions
Feeling like they’ve lost their identity outside of motherhood
Struggling with the physical and emotional impact of birth trauma
Difficulty asking for help or knowing what they need
Feeling pressure to “hold everything together” without support
Feeling disconnected from their partner or support system
Feeling alone, isolated, or misunderstood
What our mom Clients often say
When the Weight of Postpartum Depression Makes Every Day Feel Hard
Many moms describe holding it together on the outside, yet feeling sad, numb, disconnected, or unlike themselves — even when they expected this season to feel joyful. You might notice:
Persistent sadness or hopelessness
Feeling overwhelmed or unable to cope
Loss of interest in things you used to enjoy
Feeling detached from your baby or partner
Exhaustion that sleep doesn’t fix
Feeling guilty for not “feeling happy”
Struggling to feel connected or present
These experiences are common in postpartum depression, and it is treatable — you don’t have to navigate it alone.
At Oak and Stone Therapy, our maternal mental health therapists at the Highland Park office, Pasadena office, Koreatown office, Seattle virtual office, and virtually across California and Washington, can help you understand what you’re experiencing, interrupt the cycles of emotional heaviness and disconnection, and begin rebuilding a sense of steadiness, connection, and support in your postpartum journey.
Many of our Mom Clients with postpartum depression tell us:
“I’m overwhelmed from the moment I wake up.”
“I feel guilty for not enjoying motherhood.”
“I’m exhausted in a way sleep doesn’t fix.”
“I didn’t expect it to be this hard.”
“I feel so alone, even when I’m not physically alone.”
“I don’t feel like myself.”
“I thought I’d be happier than this.”
“I feel disconnected from my baby and from who I used to be.”
“I feel numb — like I’m just going through the motions.”
“I cry all the time and I don’t know why.”
When Being a Mom Feels Overwhelming and Your Mind Won’t Slow Down
Many moms describe feeling constantly on edge, worried, or unable to relax — even when things are calm. You might notice:
Persistent worry about your baby’s safety or health
Racing thoughts that make it hard to rest or focus
Feeling tense, jumpy, or unable to “turn your brain off”
Difficulty sleeping because your mind keeps replaying fears
Checking, researching, or monitoring things repeatedly for reassurance
Feeling overwhelmed by decisions, routines, or unexpected changes
These experiences are common in postpartum anxiety and it’s is treatable — you don’t have to navigate it alone.
At Oak and Stone Therapy, our maternal mental health therapists at the Highland Park office, Pasadena office, Koreatown / Mid City office, Seattle virtual office, and virtually across California and Washington, can help you understand what you’re experiencing, interrupt the cycles of overwhelm and emotional exhaustion, and begin rebuilding a sense of steadiness, connection, and support in your postpartum journey.
Many of our mom clients with postpartum anxiety tell us:
“I can’t relax, even when the baby is safe.”
“My mind won’t stop racing.”
“I’m constantly worried something bad will happen.”
“I feel tense and on edge all day.”
“I’m always bracing for the worst.”
I check things over and over because I’m scared I’ll miss something.”
“I can’t sleep because my brain won’t shut off.”
“I’m always bracing for the worst.”
“I feel overwhelmed by every decision.”
“I know I’m being overly worried, but I can’t stop.”
When You’re Grieving the Family You Imagined and Navigating the Pain of Infertility
Many women describe feeling heartbroken, overwhelmed, or deeply shaken by the emotional weight of infertility or reproductive loss. You might notice:
Grief that resurfaces month after month
Feeling like your body has betrayed you or isn’t doing what it “should”
Waves of sadness, anger, or jealousy around pregnancy announcements
Avoiding baby showers, social gatherings, or conversations about children
Feeling isolated or misunderstood, even by people who care
Strain in your relationship as you and your partner cope differently
Feeling consumed by appointments, treatments, or uncertainty
A sense of losing the future you imagined
These experiences are common in infertility and reproductive grief, and healing is possible — you don’t have to navigate this alone.
At Oak and Stone Therapy, our maternal mental health therapists at the Highland Park office, Pasadena office, Koreatown / Mid City office, Seattle virtual office, and virtually across California and Washington, can help you process the grief, understand the emotional impact of infertility, and begin rebuilding a sense of steadiness, hope, and connection as you move forward.
our mom clients suffering from infertility and grief tell us:
“I feel like my body is failing me.”
“I don’t understand why this is happening to me.”
“I feel broken or defective.”
“I don’t feel like a ‘real mom’ yet.”
“I’m grieving something I never even got to have.”
“Every month feels like a new heartbreak.”
“I don’t know how to hold hope and disappointment at the same time.”
“I’m overwhelmed by appointments, tests, and decisions.”
“I feel like my life revolves around fertility treatments.”
“I’m scared to get my hopes up again.
“Everyone around me seems to get pregnant so easily.”
“I feel alone — like no one understands.”
“I avoid baby showers and pregnancy announcements.”
“I feel jealous and then guilty about it.”
“I don’t know how to talk about this with friends who haven’t gone through it.”
“This is putting so much pressure on my relationship.”
“I feel disconnected from my partner.”
“I don’t know how to ask for what I need.”
“I don’t want people to think something is wrong with me.”
You Deserve Support That Honors Your Story
Motherhood is complex — and you don’t have to navigate it alone. Whether you’re struggling with postpartum depression, anxiety, birth trauma, infertility, reproductive grief, or simply feeling overwhelmed, therapy can help you feel grounded, connected, and supported.
If you’re ready to begin, you can reach out to any of our maternal mental health therapists at Oak and Stone Therapy. Each clinician brings their lived experience as a mom and offers in‑person sessions at the listed office and virtual therapy across California and Washington.
Learn more about our maternal mental health therapists:
Hatty J. Lee, LMFT #83772 (in-person Pasadena/Highland Park office, virtual across California)
Elizabeth Yoshonis, AMFT #142021 (working under supervision/in-person Pasadena/Highland Park office, virtual across California)
Sarah Ling, AMFT #165464 (working under supervision/in-person Pasadena/Highland Park/Koreatown office, virtual across California)
Sarah Hwang, AMFT #142024 (working under supervision/in-person Koreatown office, virtual sessions across California)
Minji Kim, AMFT #142023 (working under supervision/virtual across California)
Kate Han, AMFT #142022 (working under supervision/in-person Pasadena office, virtual across California)
Hanna Byeon, LMFT #124316 (virtual across Washington and California)
Frequently Asked Questions
In-person therapy at our Highland office, with nearby offices in Pasadena and Los Angeles Office in Koreatown. Virtual therapy across California and Washington State.
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Yes. Our Pasadena maternal mental health therapists specialize in postpartum depression and postpartum anxiety using Brainspotting and Restoration Therapy. Brainspotting helps process the nervous‑system roots of postpartum distress, while Restoration Therapy supports emotional regulation, identity shifts, and relational patterns that impact early motherhood.
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Absolutely. Brainspotting is highly effective for processing traumatic births, emergency C‑sections, medical interventions, and NICU experiences. Restoration Therapy complements this work by helping moms understand their pain cycles, regulate emotions, and rebuild a sense of safety and connection with themselves and their baby.
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Yes. Many Highland Park moms seek support for postpartum depression, postpartum anxiety, birth trauma, NICU trauma, infertility grief, and the overwhelm of early motherhood. We offer both in‑person and virtual Brainspotting and Restoration Therapy sessions to make care accessible for busy or overstimulated families.
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Yes. Brainspotting helps process the emotional and somatic impact of infertility, pregnancy loss, miscarriage, and IVF stress. Restoration Therapy supports the relational and identity shifts that often accompany fertility journeys, helping moms feel more grounded, regulated, and connected.
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Moms often seek therapy when they experience persistent sadness, anxiety, irritability, intrusive thoughts, panic, difficulty bonding with their baby, feeling “not like myself,” guilt, shame, or overwhelm. Brainspotting helps access deeper emotional layers, while Restoration Therapy helps you understand patterns, regulate emotions, and create new ways of responding.
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Yes. Our therapists provide culturally responsive care for moms from diverse backgrounds, including BIPOC and Asian American moms navigating intergenerational trauma, cultural expectations, identity shifts, and the pressure to “hold everything together.” Both Brainspotting and Restoration Therapy offer safe, affirming ways to process emotional pain within cultural context.
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Yes. Parenting a neurodivergent child can bring emotional, sensory, and logistical challenges. Brainspotting helps moms process overwhelm, burnout, and advocacy stress, while Restoration Therapy supports emotional regulation, relational patterns, and the identity shifts that often accompany neurodivergent parenting.
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Yes. In addition to our Pasadena office, we offer therapy for moms across Los Angeles, including Highland Park, Koreatown, Silver Lake, DTLA, Hiand surrounding neighborhoods. Virtual Brainspotting and Restoration Therapy sessions are available for moms who need flexible, accessible care.
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Many moms do. If bringing your baby helps you access care, we welcome it. We also offer virtual sessions if in‑person therapy feels challenging during postpartum recovery or early motherhood.
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You can schedule a consultation through our Pasadena office, our Highland Park office, or our Los Angeles (Koreatown) location. We’ll help you find a therapist trained in Brainspotting and Restoration Therapy who aligns with your needs, cultural background, and maternal mental health goals.
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Yes. Postpartum rage is more common than most moms realize. Brainspotting helps process the underlying emotional and nervous‑system activation, while Restoration Therapy supports emotional regulation and helps you understand the pain cycles that contribute to irritability or anger.
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Absolutely. Many moms feel lost, disconnected, or unsure of who they are after childbirth. Restoration Therapy is especially effective for identity shifts, while Brainspotting helps process the emotional layers that make identity loss feel overwhelming or confusing.
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Yes. Bonding challenges can stem from trauma, anxiety, depression, or nervous‑system overwhelm. Brainspotting helps release emotional blocks, while Restoration Therapy supports attachment, emotional regulation, and rebuilding connection with your baby.
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Yes. Many Pasadena, Highland Park, and Los Angeles moms seek therapy during transitions like returning to work, managing childcare, or balancing career and motherhood. Restoration Therapy helps with relational patterns and emotional regulation, while Brainspotting supports stress reduction and nervous‑system grounding.
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Yes. Sensory overwhelm is extremely common for moms, especially postpartum or when parenting neurodivergent children. Brainspotting helps regulate the nervous system, while Restoration Therapy helps you understand triggers and create new patterns for managing overstimulation.
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Yes. Many moms struggle with cultural, familial, or internalized expectations around motherhood. Restoration Therapy helps you understand the emotional and relational roots of perfectionism, while Brainspotting helps release the deeper emotional pressure stored in the body.
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Absolutely. Relationship tension is common postpartum. Restoration Therapy is particularly effective for understanding pain cycles, communication patterns, and emotional regulation within relationships. Brainspotting can also help process resentment, fear, or emotional blocks that impact connection.
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Yes. Many moms seek support during transitions like adding a second baby, managing multiple children, or balancing different developmental needs. Brainspotting helps regulate overwhelm, while Restoration Therapy supports identity shifts, relational patterns, and emotional grounding.
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Yes. Medical trauma, chronic pain, pelvic floor issues, breastfeeding challenges, and postpartum health complications can deeply impact emotional wellbeing. Brainspotting helps process medical trauma, while Restoration Therapy supports emotional regulation and identity shifts related to health changes.